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"People who are commitment-phobic want a relationship, but they have a paralysing anxiety or a fear of relationships," said Bela Gandhi. “You have to understand why she fears commitment,” he said after a moment. He explained his theories and how each one of them failed to generate the. Deep and emotionally intimate relationships are what many of us desire, but for some people, these types of relationships are fraught with the fear of being hurt.
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